Advice works best when it is asked for. If it isnt asked for, dont delude byself by calling it advice.Call it what it truly is. Meddling !! This is a story i once read a long long time ago. It's about these 2 men who are the village advisors.And while both seem to give good advice one is incredibly popular and the other is'nt.And the 2nd guy wonders why. Its not like he was …showed first 75 words of 552 total…

…showed last 75 words of 552 total…the more he wonders...the more he will resent your advice Rather than that...notice i didnt directly encourage him. But i didnt discourage him either.And the next time he has a problem ....there's a better chance he'll listen " I found this story quite interesting..Coz from my experience ..i know both kinds...those who have made up their minds and yet ask and those who who genuinely want to know what to do